While this may sound like the title to the latest Hallmark Christmas movie, sadly it is simply the reality we are facing. I can remember saying, and hearing, back in Spring, that things would be normal by the holidays. It turns out that our coronavirus numbers are worse than ever, and we are facing a holiday season in isolation.
For many of us its been months or longer since we have seen members of our family and some friends. Many of us are longing long to spend time with aging parents or grandparents , to reconnect with old friends from back home, or maybe just get into the holiday spirit. Everyone wants to get back to a period of normalcy right now, after all it has been nearly 8 months since the world seemed to fall apart. The notion of Thanksgiving brings pictures of loved one gathering together over a meal---talking and laughing and making new memories. But is it safe this year to make this vision a reality?
We know that coronavirus can easily spread from one person to another during traditional holiday activities where we gather sharing food and traditions. But we need to keep in mind that when you gather, even for important holidays, the risk if possible infection increases for everyone around your table.
However, if you do plan to get together with friends and loved ones, especially those who are most vulnerable, here are some ways to do it more safely:
Have a conversation to agree on some ground rules in the weeks leading up to your feast. To be really safe, you should try to quarantine for two weeks before the day. At least agree to where masks and physically distance whenever possible
Host outdoor activities rather than indoor activities as much as possible. If hosting an outdoor event is not possible, and you choose to host an indoor event, avoid crowded, poorly ventilated, or fully enclosed indoor spaces.
Host activities with only people from your local area as much as possible.
Limit numbers of attendees as much as possible.
Provide updated information to your guests about any COVID-19 safety guidelines and steps in place to prevent the spread of the virus.
Provide or encourage attendees to bring supplies to help you and others stay healthy. For example, extra masks (do not share or swap with others), hand sanitizer that contains at least 60% alcohol, and tissues.
If you have decided to celebrate a different kind of holiday season this year, here are a few ideas to make it a special celebration:
1. Share secret recipes. If your relatives haven't yet passed down their most beloved family recipes, now may be the perfect time to do so. This creates new and fun ways to celebrate Thanksgiving during COVID-19. Maybe you will finally figure out how to make Grandma's special stuffing!
2. Cook together via video chat. Have a video call during which you can cook together. Grandparents can log in and show you how to cook or prepare their favorite family recipes. Perhaps invest in some new special coordinating aprons. Anything you can think of to keep it special and fun!
3. Eat together via video chat. Consider eating Thanksgiving dinner with your children's grandparents via a video chat session. Place your computer or mobile device in a spot where your relatives can easily see everyone at the table. Maintain your usual traditions by saying grace together and also sharing what you are the most grateful for this year. I believe we still have so much to be grateful for, so perhaps its time to share it!
5. Drop off meals using contactless delivery. Prepare your relatives' favorite meals and treats, then drop them off on their front porches without handing them off directly. If you live farther away or in another state, order their favorite meals from a restaurant in their local area and arrange to have them delivered by a third-party delivery service using contactless delivery. If all else fails, you can even send cookies or an edible arrangement. Remember, its the love behind the gesture!
There is no doubt that 2020 has tested our resiliency. If we are creative, we can certainly make the holiday season special and perhaps even include some of these new experiences into our holiday traditions in the future. Have a safe, happy, and healthy Thanksgiving.
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